Have you ever known people, not just Joe Blow, but people that you have known for a while, not associates or even so called friends but a real friend. You go along doing life, whatever that means to you, then that friend just stops calling, stops reaching out, and just stops showing up for you! When you realize it, you call them you reach out, and still the calls go unanswered, the phone calls are not returned.
You say to to yourself, 'Well, I wonder what happened?' You start questioning yourself and wondering if they had some sort of major life crisis that you did show up for. You ask yourself, 'Did I do something wrong ?' or 'Did I say something to offend them?' You think real hard and you even go to God and pray about it.
Then, like a ton of bricks, it hits you! It was nothing I did or said; they just stopped calling. At that point you realize and reflect that your friend has walked away, step out, dipped out of your life for good, without even a reason why.
Wow! in your loudest Flavor Fave voice you think, 'What did I ever do to them to deserve that?!'
Well, the answer to your question is: Nothing, not one thing. The truth of the matter is very plain and simple, people change, people grow and some see the world in which they live very differently from your set of glasses.
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